I completely agree, but I also think that a lot of reason why things are getting worse (and I agree that they are in some ways) is that people with your outlook are destroying the social confidence in the system, and the system works based in large part off confidence.

There's an immense difference between endorsing the fundamental principle that everyone is an individual and should be judged as such to the greatest extent possible while noting that certain segments of the population have serious behavioral issues--which rallies our effort to fix the problem and erect more deterrents--and indiscriminately bashing an entire category of people because some of them are dangerous and you can't tell the difference. The latter saps collective will to even try to find ways to increase how much trust we can have, because it's so much easier to write off huge groups.

Couple that with an exploitative minority who is trying to make things worse for selfish reasons, and who escapes severe criticism because tribal affinity is prioritized over individual responsibility (and they hide in a much larger tribe)--you're on the hook for that too, in part, because your attitude provokes tribal defensiveness--and we have a recipe for things getting worse rather than better.

About forty years ago there was a shift from idealizing the "mixing pot" view of society to a "chopped salad" view of multiculturalism as the ideal. But this doesn't work terribly well when the lettuce, tomatoes, and cucumbers all find reasons to hate each other.