If you only look for fruit on one side, and aircraft on the other, it will indeed seem like apples and airplanes.

Here's an exercise to see if you are even able to perceive anything wrong on (what appears to be) your side. Why don't you try to make the most telling criticism you can of your side's silencing of people?

So far you've got that it's "unfortunate" when a person "accidentally uses the wrong pronoun", with even that very tepid criticism weakened by your assertion that if it's intentional it's "harassment and violates the Civil Rights Act".

So, how about it? What's the most egregious attempt at silencing people committed by the progressive left that you can think of? (Feel free to add the most egregious instance on the right for comparison--that's fair.)