I'm aligned with humanist goals (and feminist goals as an overlapping subset of those) but insist that they be achieved in practice not desired but pushed ever further out of reach.

You argue for things that I agree with, sometimes, but seem to me to be ready to end up with Somalia-like conditions rather than take a gentler approach. Our alignment thus seems partial, and more in goal than approach, from what I can tell.

But I don't know your outlook that well. Nor do you mine. So why do you ask the question?