I'm not going to reply at length, at this point, about the points made (only about whether it answered what I asked) unless Robert indicates that he's interested. But since you brought it up and it would be one of my points too, one has to consider that not all different approaches are mutually compatible when broadcast widely over social media platforms.
In particular, social media "tough love" towards men as a group is strongly incompatible with social media "building bridges", "divide and conquer", etc.. (You can apply different strategies once you target individual men, of course.)
"Some people want a peace treaty, some want war...let's do both!" isn't a credible strategy.