Rex Kerr
1 min readMar 23, 2023

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No principled reason, but unless he and the woman are wearing hats or something marking them as not-doing-the-procreation-signaling-thing, the cultural standard could still reasonably be that he does. Or not. It's not a big deal. My point is only that it's a reasonable signal to display and to want displayed for a lot of people. And at a baseline it certainly isn't a dominance signal, though humans are pretty good at turning any random thing into a dominance signal.

There's a ton of flexibility for how to implement this as reasonable cultural norms. It's not a big deal for some people to adopt a norm whose purpose doesn't apply to them as long as the effort required is small. It's also not a big deal if the norm is you don't have to adopt the behavior if it doesn't apply to you. It's also not a big deal if we skip some norms as long as the tradeoff isn't too bad. It is a big deal if people viciously attack each others' character for following a different norm than their own preference, especially if they infer malevolence for the other norm without clear and compelling evidence that this is in fact the source.

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Rex Kerr
Rex Kerr

Written by Rex Kerr

One who rejoices when everything is made as simple as possible, but no simpler. Sayer of things that may be wrong, but not so bad that they're not even wrong.

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