No, you're arguing that my situation should be the same as your situation and therefore you should (potentially) get supreme rights over others that I don't have.

If I have the right to life myself and live in an incredibly dangerous country, and you have the right to life and live in an incredibly safe neighborhood, I can't just say, "Well, I have the same right to life as you do, so I get to shoot everyone who is a danger to me until I am as safe as you." Why? Because it violates the rights of the people I shoot, of course!

I could avail myself of the right to self defense (necessary in my case to hold the right to life) so that whenever I was in imminent danger I could act in ways that you never would need to in practice, and I might end up killing some people. But I couldn't have the same safety you did--I would be constantly on guard, constantly in danger, it would disrupt my life and health...and I still don't have the rights to mow down everyone else so I end up equal to you because the right isn't to the same condition.

Now, the biology of males and females is different. Females end up conjoined to fetuses that eventually we ought to consider as people. But the right to bodily autonomy only covers you. It does not cover you if you desire to kill your conjoined twin, and logically at some point the developing child might have the same personhood status as a conjoined twin.

So, no. You don't want equal rights, you want equal conditions and to overcome the difference in biology, and you want superior rights so that you you can be (partially) freed from the differences in biology.

In some cases, I'd actually argue that this was reasonable. But in this case, the extra right to (potentially) end another person's life is a very big ask and deserves a good argument. You don't think an argument is even needed, apparently!

(If your position is: when there is any hope of the baby surviving all "abortions" are actually C-sections, then you start having a point. But as you've stated it, no, you want an extra right to kill people that I don't have because you want to escape the unfortunate biological reality that you end up physically entangled with the life of another person in ways that I won't.)