This is an excellent demonstration you've provided of AP's charge of lack of nuance. AP can of course speak for themselves, but do you honestly not see how easy it is to answer all the questions you ask?

(1) One can be a victim of racism AND do things worthy of criticism.

(2) One can be a republican AND critical of those who (in some ways) "leave".

(3) One can perceive serious character flaws in people of any race and speak about them AND be anti-racist in intent.

(4) One can disavow certain types of statement AND yet allow people the freedom to show to the world how obnoxious their views are.

(5) One can dislike some attitudes of some people AND yet not wish upon them death and suffering.

There is more to existence than tribal allegiance.