To an extent, yes, but it's mostly just the unfolding of a complex non-stationary system (society) without anyone really at the steering wheel, and everyone nudging it this way than that.

It's not like society is some sort of sex-segregated boarding school. Even the famous Man Box study shows that men are over 3x more likely to seek support when upset from a woman (romantic partner or mother) than a man (father or male friend), and at least in Australia (where their report digs into details better than the original), even Man-Boxed men are as likely to seek female guidance as male regarding the pressures of "being a man" (https://cdn.jss.org.au/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/28093247/The-Man-Box-A-study-on-being-a-young-man-in-Australia.pdf, figures 14 & 15).

If "good" men have dropped the ball, so too have the women in the non-"good" men's lives. That's not an excuse for men to do less, but it is a critique of where you place responsibility.

Also, unlike the manosphere, whose PR would be better if it were handled by an angry llama, corporate developers understand that when they say ridiculously obnoxious stuff like "stop whinging, mold builds character", it hurts their bottom line.

We'd all go, "No, You Morons, Mold is Not a Healthy Lifestyle Choice!" and pass health and safety laws.

But when the manosphere goes, "stop whinging, give us sex and do the dishes (prettily, without complaining)", we don't all go, "No, You Morons, Gaston was the Villain in Beauty and the Beast; it Wasn't an Instruction Manual!"

But maybe we should. When it comes to dismantling toxic dominance hierarchies, mockery is more effective than hostility, because the natural reaction to hostility is...to form a dominance hierarchy for mutual aid and rapid reaction to threats.