Yes, "destroyed everything" is definitely hyperbolic. Also, the worst enemy on the planet to fight "a war" against is human men--that's one of the problems with men in a dominator culture: entirely too effective at war and destruction. If that's your plan, it's a really bad one. And, thirdly, most of the major advances in rights have come from unifiers, not dividers.
If good, decent people reject the hateful and manipulative and unify around seeking a better future, we'll have our best chance at a better future.